It’s a beautiful thing when it all falls apart. We can acknowledge things for how they are and we just have to accept it. Don’t try to change until you’ve taken the time to accept things the way they are. Be ok with it all falling apart and get excited for the change about to take place to put it all back together.
Remember that acceptance doesn’t mean to make excuses or to be complacent, it is to merely be ok with your circumstances to allow yourself to move forward.